I Have Questions

“To deny people their human rights is to challenge their very humanity.” –Nelson Mandela I stay awake pondering, wondering and simply cannot get these questions out of my mind.   Why does the little girl on the play ground feel awkward about her hair Why is she laughed at, pointed at When her hair is…

Five Ways to Stay Safe this Spring Break

Safety First is Safety Always. -Charles M. Hayes Spring break is around the corner and it is time to bring out the swimsuits and soak up the sun. As we plan and prepare for all our travels and parties it is important to make sure we are safe and protect ourselves from dangerous situations. Here…

A Candid Conversation About Abuse

“For Nigeria and many other African countries to move forward, there needs to be a shift in how boys and girls are socialized.” – Josephine Effah – Chukwuma   A conversation with Mrs. Josephine Chukwuma about Abuse in Nigeria. Esther, a young vibrant girl lives in the busy city of Lagos that never sleeps. While others…

Redefining Abuse: What it looks like and how to fix it.

“Abuse is never deserved, it is an exploitation of innocence and physical disadvantage, which is perceived as an opportunity by the abuser.” ― Lorraine Nilon Is it a classic story of a crazy stupid love?  Am I disrespectful and deserve to be punished, am I crazy and oversensitive or am I being abused? Ladies from time…

Why We Love Meghan Markle

“I think the biggest part of being a girl boss in the office, at home, or anywhere you go is just knowing your value.” Meghan Markle Hello Friends! So part of my re-branding for this website. I have decided to introduce a section called “Favorites.” Favorites is where I will be sharing places, things or…

Busy or Productive?

“Simplicity boils down to two steps: Identify the essential. Eliminate the rest.” ― Leo Babauta This is one of the most important question to ask yourself each night before you go to bed. Was I really productive or just busy today? Truth is that you may not really be happy with what you discover. For…

Next Steps…

“Sometimes the hardest part is not letting go but rather learning to start all over.” -Nicole Sobon Hola! I know it has been the longest time, and no I absolutely do not have a good excuse . It has mostly been me being super lazy and very uninspired. But in the midst of all that…

Why We Love San Francisco

To a traveler paying his first visit, it has the interest of a new plant. It ignores the meteorological laws which govern the rest of the world. –Fitz Hugh Ludlow Hey Guys! It has always been my dream to visit California, especially San Francisco, and finally my dream came true and I really had fun…

10 Tips For A Productive Day

Today is a new day. Even if you got it wrong yesterday, you can get it right today – source Hey people!! Lights, Camera action!! I remember that clearly waking up everyday usually used to feel like that. Another day to survive to just act and go through the day. Recently I just really got…

Employment!!

The only way to do great work is to love what you do – Steve Job Hey guys!! So I just started my first major job, I mean I have worked a few jobs before, but just got my first money earning job and it feels so great, kind of makes me wonder why I…